There is no greater happiness for the mind and the body than orgasm. But there is also nothing else that is so short.
Our physical essence appreciates more the “size” of the happiness than its duration. That is so, because every duration at the beginning is potential, not real.
The greatest human motivators refer to the present. That’s the way the nature works. It doesn’t matter if we are happy in the future. Our true nature wants it now, in the present.
Yes, we can expect and predict that we will be happy. But while we wait, our body does not care what we believe, especially when it suffers.
So, do not wait! Stick to your happiness now!